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TOV 25-014 The Cost of Character: Paying the Price for Integrity
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TOV 25-014 The Cost of Character: Paying the Price for Integrity

TODAY'S FOCUS IS: Embracing the Sacrifices Required for Godly Character

"Suppose one of you wants to build a tower. Won’t you first sit down and estimate the cost to see if you have enough money to complete it?" —Luke 14:28


Brother, let’s be real—building godly character is not for the faint of heart. It’s a process that demands sacrifice, self-discipline, and a willingness to face rejection and discomfort. The road to integrity is steep, narrow, and often lonely, but it’s also the road to true life and eternal reward.

Jesus Himself calls us to count the cost of following Him. Living with integrity and building a character that reflects Christ means saying “no” to the world’s shortcuts, temptations, and lies, and saying “yes” to God’s refining process.

The question is: Are you willing to pay the price?


The Reality of the Cost

Developing godly character is costly. It requires:

1. Facing Discomfort

  • Integrity demands that we walk the harder path, even when it’s inconvenient or uncomfortable.

  • Proverbs 10:9: "Whoever walks in integrity walks securely, but he who makes his ways crooked will be found out."

2. Risking Rejection

  • Choosing truth over compromise may isolate you from friends, coworkers, or even family members.

  • John 15:18-19: "If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first."

3. Practicing Self-Discipline

  • Building character means consistently choosing what’s right, even when no one is watching.

  • 1 Corinthians 9:27: "I discipline my body and keep it under control, lest after preaching to others I myself should be disqualified."

4. Surrendering Control

  • Integrity requires submitting your plans, desires, and outcomes to God’s will.

  • Proverbs 3:5-6: "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding."


The Rewards of Integrity

Though the cost is high, the rewards of living with godly character far outweigh the sacrifices:

1. Confidence and Security

  • Integrity allows you to walk without fear or regret, knowing you’re aligned with God’s truth.

  • Psalm 25:21: "May integrity and uprightness protect me, because my hope, Lord, is in you."

2. A God-Honoring Legacy

  • The choices you make today shape the legacy you leave for future generations.

  • Proverbs 20:7: "The righteous who walks in his integrity—blessed are his children after him!"

3. God’s Favor and Strength

  • God strengthens and supports those who choose to live wholeheartedly for Him.

  • 2 Chronicles 16:9: "For the eyes of the Lord range throughout the earth to strengthen those whose hearts are fully committed to him."

4. Eternal Rewards

  • Living with integrity stores up treasure in heaven that will never fade.

  • Matthew 6:19-20: "Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moths and vermin destroy, and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven."


How to Pay the Price for Integrity

  1. Count the Cost

    • Acknowledge the sacrifices required for a life of godly character. Be willing to embrace them.

    • Luke 9:23: "Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me."

  2. Stay Rooted in God’s Word

    • Let Scripture guide your decisions and strengthen your resolve.

    • Psalm 119:105: "Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path."

  3. Commit to Accountability

    • Surround yourself with brothers who will challenge and encourage you to walk in integrity.

    • Ecclesiastes 4:9-10: "Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up."

  4. Pray for Strength and Wisdom

    • Ask God to help you stand firm when the cost feels too great.

    • James 1:5: "If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you."


Challenge of the Week

  1. Identify the Cost: What specific area of your life is God calling you to live with greater integrity?

  2. Take Action: Make one intentional decision this week to honor God, even if it’s uncomfortable or costly.

  3. Share the Journey: Connect with a brother in Christ to share your commitment and gain support.


Let’s Pray

Father God,
Thank You for calling us to lives of integrity and for giving us the strength to walk the narrow path. Help us to count the cost and embrace the sacrifices required to live for You. Strengthen our resolve, guide our steps, and use us to reflect Your truth and love to the world. In Jesus’s name, Amen.


Brothers, the cost of character is high, but the reward is eternal. Pay the price, walk in integrity, and let your life be a beacon for Christ. Let’s Get To Work!

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