If there’s one spiritual discipline that transformed my marriage more than any other—it’s prayer. Not just praying for my wife in secret (though that matters), but praying with her. Out loud. Consistently. Intentionally.
It’s not always easy. It can feel awkward. Vulnerable. But man, when you step into that space with her, something shifts. Walls come down. Intimacy deepens. God shows up.
Our springboard for today’s discussion is:
“Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way... showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel... so that your prayers may not be hindered.” — 1 Peter 3:7 (ESV)
Scripture is clear—your relationship with your wife impacts your relationship with God. If your marriage is out of alignment, your prayers get disrupted. That’s how seriously God takes your role as a spiritual leader.
But here’s the good news: when you honor her, pray with her, and fight for unity, heaven takes notice.
Praying with your wife doesn’t mean delivering a sermon. It’s as simple as grabbing her hand and saying, “Can I pray for you today?” It could be thirty seconds. It could be five minutes. The power isn’t in the words—it’s in the obedience.
And don’t wait for a crisis. Make it normal. Before bed. Before decisions. Before she leaves for work. Let her hear you call out her name to God. Let her hear you thank Him for her, ask Him to strengthen her, protect her, and lead your family.
When you pray for her privately, you become her greatest advocate before the throne. You begin to see her through God’s eyes. You start fighting spiritual battles on her behalf.
You’re not just her husband—you’re her intercessor. Don’t underestimate that responsibility.
Question of the Day:
When was the last time you grabbed your wife’s hand and prayed with her? Not about her—but with her?
Mini Call to Action:
Tonight, before the day ends, ask your wife if you can pray over her. It doesn’t have to be perfect—just real. Start there. Start now.
Prayer:
God, teach me to pray with courage and tenderness. Make me the kind of man who covers his wife in prayer, not just in crisis, but daily. Let our marriage be a place where You are constantly invited in. Amen.
Let’s Get to Work.
You want to lead your home spiritually? Start on your knees. Take her hand, and invite the King into your covenant.
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