It’s easy to confuse being around your kids with being present for them. Just because you’re in the same room doesn’t mean you’re connected. True fatherhood isn’t about proximity—it’s about intentionality. Your presence speaks volumes... but only if you're actually present.
Our springboard for today’s discussion is:
“Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, making the best use of the time...” — Ephesians 5:15–16 (ESV)
Time is a nonrenewable resource. You can make more money. You can’t make more moments. And while your kids may not remember every word you say, they’ll never forget how you made them feel—or how often you made time for them.
Being present isn’t complicated. It means putting the phone down and locking in when they’re talking. It means noticing the little things. Showing up for the games, the recitals, the tears, the late-night questions.
Intentionality means you don’t just wait for moments to connect—you create them. You initiate conversations. You schedule one-on-one time. You speak their language, even if it’s awkward or outside your comfort zone.
I’ve had to learn this over the years—being busy doesn’t excuse being absent. And “I’m providing for them” can’t be the only badge I wear. Because if I win at work and lose at home... I lose.
Fatherhood means investing time not just into their behavior, but into their hearts.
So let me ask you: are your kids getting your leftovers, or your intentional best?
Question of the Day:
Are you fully present when you’re with your kids—or are you just physically nearby but emotionally disconnected?
Mini Call to Action:
Block out a 30-minute time slot today to be 100% present with your child. No phone. No agenda. Just listen, play, or talk. Show up—on purpose.
Prayer:
Father, help me to slow down and prioritize what matters most. Teach me to give my kids not just my presence, but my focus, my joy, and my intentional love. Let my time with them reflect Your heart. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Let’s Get to Work.
The most powerful thing you can give your kids today isn’t advice—it’s you. Show up. Be all there. They’ll remember it forever.
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