Marriage isn’t built on the rush of emotion—it’s forged in the quiet, daily choices to love like Christ. Today, we’re diving into the foundation of lasting love, drawn straight from 1 Corinthians 13. If you’ve ever wondered what real love looks like in the grind of real life, this message is for you.
Our springboard for today’s discussion is:
"Love is patient and kind." —1 Corinthians 13:4 (ESV)
Love that lasts is love that leans in. Patience in marriage is not passive—it’s the strength to endure, to listen longer, to wait without anger. When your spouse is having a rough day, when misunderstandings happen, or when expectations go unmet, patience steps in. It doesn’t demand change instantly—it believes that growth takes time. That kind of love reflects God’s patience with us.
And kindness? It’s not just about being “nice.” It’s active. It’s holding your spouse’s hand when they’re hurting. It’s choosing your words carefully, speaking life instead of criticism. It’s making coffee in the morning just because. In a world that often celebrates sarcasm or self-protection, kindness is countercultural—and powerful.
Patience and kindness aren’t just emotional reactions. They’re spiritual decisions. They don’t depend on how your spouse is acting. They depend on how you’re walking with Jesus.
Marriage isn’t a 50/50 contract. It’s 100/100 surrender. And when you love like you mean it—with real patience and real kindness—you build a marriage that mirrors the heart of God.
Question of the Day:
What is one way you can intentionally show patience or kindness to your spouse today—before they even ask for it?
Let’s Pray:
Lord, teach us to love with patience and kindness. Help us reflect Your heart in our marriages, especially in the small, unseen moments. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Let’s Get To Work!
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